This morning we wake up under a Cancer
Moon supported by a waning trine to the Pisces Sun and pressurized by
a waxing square to Uranus and opposition to Pluto at midday. I am
seeing umbilical cords being cut here. It's almost as if the tendency
to enable is diminished. Baby birds may be pushed from the nest.
At the same time, that energy has the
potential to also be flip-flopped. The square to Uranus at 11:50 AM
could mark a dispute with someone bound and determined to be
independent while the opposition to Pluto (12:53 PM) riddles both the
Cancer Moon and our Uranian figure with an obsession to control and
cling viciously to either agenda. It's a tight tug of war.
To balance this out, we can pull in the
powers of Libra to negotiate and weigh out our options. Compromises
can be made. Decorum can be mustered. Know when to let go and when to
negotiate in an effort to keep partnerships together.
At 4:29 PM, the Moon is in trine to
Chiron in Pisces. Reminding us, once again, of our vulnerability.
Make decisions you can live with long term. Don't allow the pressure
from the waxing Cardinal Cross to push you into being hasty or making
off the cuff decisions UNLESS it is truly an emergent situation and
you need to act quickly. If you are worried that someone's increased
desire for independence may threaten the dynamics of your
relationship, then, maybe you need to check yourself for co-dependent
behavior. That sounds more like your problem than theirs.
I was married to guy once who became
really threatened when I landed a job that enabled me to have more
financial independence. He was worried that because my income was at
the same level as his that I would leave him. Well. I DID leave him.
Not because I was financially secure, but because he was a
controlling, insecure jerk. Getting a new hair cut meant I was trying
to bag a new man. Staying too long at the grocery store meant I was
trying to bag a new man. Buying a new outfit meant...guess what. It
was both insulting and exhausting. Apparently, the man thought I had
nothing better to think about or that finding men was my only goal in
life or something. I don't know. But, I do know that holding on too
tightly out of fear of losing someone can, indeed, push them away.
Fostering your own independence and
relishing your freedom of choice helps you to be supportive of others
that do the same. So, if you are tempted to pull someone else's
puppet strings, maybe you should re-aim your focus on controlling
your own. If efforts toward independence makes someone else uncomfortable, well...my advice is to leave them wailing in your dust. But, you do what you can live with.
After the trine with Chiron, the Moon
is Void on this last day of February. Tomorrow, March storms in like
a Lion under Moon in Leo at 6:35 PM. Monday the stage is set for a
flurry of activity under a beautiful Fire Trine with the Moon,
Saturn, Mars, Venus and Uranus. WHOOOSH! Monday is definitely a green
light day. So, use this Void Moon period (4:30 PM today to 6:30 PM
tomorrow) to figure out which direction you really want to go and
make sure you are pointed that way when this fire energy makes it way
to us. It is very likely we could receive some sparks of inspiration
tomorrow morning as Mercury both sextiles Uranus and opposes Jupiter
under our Void Moon in Cancer.
Eat well. Rest well. Get ready and get
set to GO on Monday.
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